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Debt Denial: It’s Not Just a River in Egypt

By Elisa Fremeth

Debt Denial: It’s Not Just a River in Egypt

 

There’s an old joke about denial; it’s not just a river in Egypt.  When you’re living in a world of debt, denial is an ocean in your back yard.

Nope! Not Happening! Not Me!

Most people live in denial.  It helps us avoid the unpleasant things in life.  If you pretend something isn’t there, then it doesn’t exist.  Life is much easier when you pretend bad things aren’t happening in your world.  For many, denial is a coping mechanism, a way to survive.  For others, it’s a way to avoid an inevitable pain or embarrassment.  There’s nothing wrong with a little denial – in small doses.  But when you’re living with debt, being in denial is dangerous.  It prevents you from taking an honest look at your situation and finding the courage to change it.

Building a Bridge across Denial

Denying that your debt is controlling your life just leads to more debt, more stress, more despair.  But how do you get to the other side? When you’ve denied a problem for so long, it’s hard to break believe that anything is wrong.  But if you’re honest with yourself, you already know you’re in trouble.  You just don’t know how to fix things, so it’s easier to pretend everything is fine.

When you can’t pretend anymore, it’s time to get real.  Take a deep breath and call the professionals at 4 Pillars Debt Solutions.  Shawn Frank and Elisa Fremeth at 4 Pillars Gatineau will help you see your world. With compassion and understanding, they will work with you to help you settle your debt.  During your free consultation, they will gather the information they need to put together the right solution for your situation.  It may be as simple as consolidating your debt into one easy payment. That means you could have your debt reduced by 80%, leaving you debt-free in as little as five years!

You Can’t Deny the Outcome

Shawn Frank and Elisa Fremeth Frank of 4 Pillars Gatineau will create a debt settlement strategy that works for you, navigating financial terminology, figuring out your best options, and helping you rebuild your credit.  When you’re ready, call Shawn and Elisa at 1-844-663-3883 or email Gatineau@4pillars.ca.   Don’t be surprised if your new-found realism has you asking, “Why Didn’t I Do This Sooner?!”   You can’t deny you didn’t say that!

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